Let me just start by saying...what I am going to talk about in this blog we have all experienced at some point during a health and weight loss journey. Let me set the stage:
You’ve just found the "magic" solution to losing the extra weight and keeping it off forever. You finally figured out what to eat on your new health and fitness plan. You buy the groceries needed to meal prep for it, and start the exercise program it recommends. You follow the program strictly for two weeks, and guess what? You lose some weight, feel better, have more energy than ever before, and you like how your clothes fit. Success!
Then ___________ happens.
There was birthday cake at the office. You went out to lunch with your coworkers. You go on vacation. The list goes on and on and on...before you know it, you’ve had a “snack-cident.” It crept up on you without your conscious knowledge and drove your head into a bag of Doritos potato chips. After your snack-cident, then comes the wall of shame that sends you into a pit of despair and self-loathing. You ask yourself: “Why did I do that? Now I’ve really blown it!”
Feeling like a failure, you ditch your diet and fall back into your old patterns. The weight you lost soon comes back, along with a little extra. Why does this keep happening? Below are 3 of the common pitfalls that set up unrealistic expectations and can lead you to fall off the healthy lifestyle band wagon.
Pitfall #1: New beginnings
We all enjoy things that are new and exciting. It may sound strange, but sometimes it’s fun to start a new diet or exercise routine. You get to try new recipes and new workout routines and there’s all these gadgets that track all your calories and food. But, once the initial excitement wears off, we tend to get bored.
Pitfall #2: Short and sweet
We also tend to have short attention spans and want immediate results that don’t require a lot of effort on our part. It can also be the annoyance of not ordering your usual unhealthy coffee beverage or avoiding the fries or preparing healthy meals ahead of time instead of vegging out on the couch.
Pitfall #3: Unrealistic expectations
If it were possible to lose a huge amount of weight in a short amount of time and keep it off for the rest of our lives, none of us would be in this situation in the first place. Sustained, healthy weight loss and maintenance takes time, endurance, and patience.
Here are 5 tips to avoid those pitfalls and set yourself up for success:
1. Focus on the Big Picture
Embrace the desire for new things and meet these needs in other areas in your life before the newness of the diet and exercise routine wears off.
2. Become a Mental Endurance Athlete
Think of weight loss and maintenance as a marathon rather than a sprint. Remember, you did not gain all that weight over night and those bad habits that got you where you are today... will take some time to break. Best plan of attack is to think about your new journey as a lifestyle change, something you want to continue for the long run.
3. Be Realistic About Your Life
Accept your weaknesses. For example, if you know that an upcoming family gathering will be stressful and it will be hard to stick to your food plan, work around it by planning ahead. Consider what you will eat ahead of time and figure out a way to de-stress afterwards that doesn’t revolve around food.
Remember that being healthy is hard work and doesn’t come easily and you may not always enjoy the process. Expect tough times when you are bored of your meal plan and feel like rebelling or resent having to work out because you just don’t feel like it that day.
4. Celebrate Your Successes
We tend to flourish and succeed at goals when we are praised. Instead of giving yourself a label like “failure,” when you go off-plan, tell yourself it’s okay and accept that you’re “a work in progress.” Stay away from extreme labels and thoughts that make you feel hopeless (“failure” is one of them), or body image goal setting to look like a supermodel.
5. Develop a Strong Support System
Many people find that they are more successful with long-term weight loss when they involve others in the process. How could your partner, family, or friends support you in your goals? Could you share healthy meals or exercise together? If you’re feeling like skipping your workout or eating something you shouldn’t, could you text or call them to help you get motivated to stay on target?
Many times we do not have a strong support system at the beginning of our health and fitness journey. This is why I created the FUN FIT DYNASTY. In the Fun Fit Dynasty we rally to help, motivate, inspire and support each other. Does not matter how big the goal is we are all in it together. If you would like more information about how the Fun Fit Dynasty can help you reach your current health and fitness goal "Click Here" or check out the "Join A Challenge Group" tab at the top of the blog. Let's set some goals and then kick them in the face!!! #boom boom CRUSH